The transformation of 'gems', 'the metals' and 'the forms' comes with very little wear but the essence is still the same. The process of changing makes them less and less but still, they are very much present. Only the perception of the wearer changes and that is the only reason for the piece to be still there or not to be recognized as very important.
Those jewelry selections that are meant to be worn daily are in most cases planned long before the day actually starts. The person picks the comfort ring that is always on his finger, the gold chain that can go with any outfit and the non-allergic earrings to be forever in his jewelry box. Such items, in fact, do not change very often and if they do it is usually quite difficult to find a replacement. These items exist mainly because they are very easy to wear. They are simply there: in the right place, receiving the right light and not interfering with the usual routine.
The constant changes of the jewelry with the wearer are in harmony with the gradual changes in the user during the years. The jewelry is always with the user in his office, on the way, and even at home during long stays and participating in small daily family moments. At these times, the jewelry may receive tiny scratches, its luster may be slightly reduced, and its sharpness may be lessened. Usually, all that would not be seen as an issue. The changes are very slow and subtle just like the daily patterns which slowly change. The jewelry remains with the owner not because it has outlived its purpose but rather because it can so easily integrate into life.
It is not uncommon for a person to wear one piece of jewelry for several years on end. Some items are of great significance as they are acquired during life-changing events such as moving to a new co-office.
One can say that the modern way of living has had a great influence on the making and wearing of jewelry. The most important thing that has come out of this is comfort. Jewelry that is heavy and hard to wear is generally not part of the life of the common person these days. What is left is light, practical, and easily forgotten, which is exactly the trait of everyday jewelry.
On the contrary, the whole jewelry purchasing process has changed a lot. The online shopping experience has become so relaxed and pressure-free that no one will want to hurry through the selection. They will patiently compare in silence and choose what is best for them based on feeling as opposed to the loudness of the product. This slow and relaxed shopping method is a clear indication of the laid-back attitude towards the jewelry—individual choice and not a performance.
Everyday jewelry is mostly unnoticed by other people but in most cases, this is because the wearer has made that choice. The purpose is not to announce or define the person. It is just a matter of layering. Jewelry is not self-expression or social status during everyday life. It is a matter of being congruent. It is there silently, co-existing with the daily routine and becoming visible only when it is not there.
Thus, we can say that the jewelry has ceased to be a mere accessory but instead has become part of life—consistently, familiarly, and trustworthily—transitioned.
